Choosing a puppy is a big moment, and so much fun! But.... to give you both the best chance of a happy-ever-after relationship it's important to pick the right pup for YOU. Find out how right here.
I know how hard it is to be patient when you're sooo ready to add that new little furball to your family.
It's tempting to rush out to the local pet store, or check out the classifieds, and dash off to buy the first little pup that chews on your shoelaces.....but that can be a bad idea for lots of reasons!
A puppy isn't going to be little for long, and he's going to be your companion for up to 15 years or more, so it's definitely worth taking just a little time to think about your home, lifestyle, personality - and the plans you have for the two of you - BEFORE you pick out the lucky little guy or girl.
Here's what you can do to give you both the best shot at being buddies for life....
Unless you've owned different breeds of dog before you might think all dogs are just, well.... dogs!
Of course they ARE all the same species and are put together in the same basic way - 4 legs, a wagging tail, a tongue made for licking and the ability to bark, whine, bite, chew and enjoy belly rubs :)
But it's important to remember that each breed has it's own very specific 'look', personality and needs, and so do you and your family members.
When it comes to choosing a puppy, it might take a bit of extra effort to find the exact dog of your dreams but as you are going to be sharing your life with him or her for the next 10 - 12 years don't settle for the first puppy you see, just to save a bit of time and trouble.
Choosing the RIGHT PUPPY should be your ultimate aim...... so it's important to make sure that you pick a pup from a breed that is a good 'fit' for your home, lifestyle and expectations.
If you skip, or rush through, this important step you might be setting all of you up for a whole lot of disappointment and frustration.
Here are the things to think about and consider when you're making a short-list of breeds:
The first 7 points are all practical ones.....
If you live in a tiny apartment in the city, choosing a puppy that is big and boisterous, may not be the best choice - but some big dogs are low energy and could be a good fit. Small or tiny dogs and young children are usually not a match made in heaven.
Working dogs like Border Collies (and most sheep/cattle dogs) will want (no, make that need) to herd things and, unless you just happen to have a flock of sheep in your backyard, he will most likely focus that attention on your children, cat or whatever else he can find.
Big, guardian breeds can be a challenge for a first time owner, most terriers are whirlwinds of activity and can be exhausting... and so on.
The last point in the list might seem to contradict what I've already said, but really it compliments it! Once you've ruled out dog breeds that won't work, take a look at your shortlist... is there a particular breed there that you've always wanted to own?
Are you crazy about Cocker Spaniels or goofy over Great Danes? If so, pay attention to your heart. Hopefully your 'ideal dog' will be one that fits with the realities of your life, those are the best matches.
But if you absolutely MUST have a specific breed but it's not a good match in some areas - at least you'll be aware of that and can work to make sure that there's the minimum of friction!
Here are some pages where you'll find tons more tips and information to help you make the right choice....
And don't forget that purebred dogs aren't the only kind of dogs around! There are lots and lots of mixed breed pups looking for loving homes and they're just as loving, loyal and intelligent.
When it comes to health, a mixed breed puppy is also usually stronger and isn't burdened by the hereditary health problems that many purebreds carry.
There are many ways to find a mixed breed pup who needs a home, but avoid puppy mills and pet shops (who often buy from puppy mills!).
And last, but definitely not least, remember that thousands of dogs of all ages, sizes and breeds are waiting patiently in pounds and rescue societies for their 'forever family' to find them.
In my experience it's often a very special relationship too - rescued dogs seem to know when they've been given a second chance and reward their new owners with bucket-loads of that unconditional love that dogs are so famous for!
Once you've got as far as looking at a litter of puppies, it gets even trickier because it's almost impossible to look at a jumble of chubby, squirming little pups without taking one home with you!
So your most important task now is choosing a puppy who's healthy and who has the personality/temperament that you're looking for.
ALL puppies are adorable and pretty much irresistible so you need to try really hard to be practical and as unemotional as possible at this point... not easy, I know!
Taking home a sick puppy is a recipe for high vet bills and possibly a lot of heartache - and it's not a good idea. Routine vet care is necessary to keep a pup healthy and keep parasites and disease at bay.
Luckily there are some easy-to-spot signs that a puppy isn't well, or that he hasn't been given the health care he needs. I'd recommend taking a look at my Choosing A Healthy Puppy page to learn how to recognize a healthy, well-cared for pup... and get tips on keeping him that way once you get him home.
Picking a pup who hasn't been properly handled or socialized, one who is extremely anxious/scared or one who's at the opposite end of the personality scale and seems intent on bullying his/her littermates - or any other animal or human who comes their way - is also a bad way to start out.
Puppies learn a lot from their momma and littermates and need to stay with their doggie family for at least 8 weeks to get the benefits of this important canine education.
If a breeder tells you that a 5 or 6 week old puppy is 'ready to go because the momma has stopped feeding them' or for any other reason, then the DO NOT have the puppy's best interests at heart.
Dogs start weaning their puppies at somewhere between 3 and 4 weeks of age (it's a normal step in puppy development), and at that point the human 'momma' needs to step in and introduce solid food.
For backyard breeders and puppy mills this means spending money on puppy food and putting in some effort and they prefer to sell the pup at that point. It's not good for the puppy and a sign that you've not chosen a reputable, responsible breeder.
I've owned many dogs over my lifetime. Dogs of all ages, sizes, breeds and personalities - and of both sexes.
And I can honestly say that I don't think either sex is better/easier/quieter or any other adjective you care to throw out there!
With humans, it isn't whether someone is male or female that's the most important determining factor in terms of influencing their personality, behavior, intelligence etc. It's the same way with dogs.
Personality and temperament are much more products of your puppy's genetics and upbringing than they are his sex.
But there are some practical differences between male and female pups and it pays to think ahead and consider these when you're choosing a puppy. Here are some of the 'biggies'....
At the moment I have loud, bossy females (with one notable exception) and teddy-bear males, but on many occasions it's been the exact opposite.
You can get lots more help with making a decision (whether it's breed, sex, size or whatever) on this website - Choosing A Dog Made Easy There's tons of tips and advice to get you started off right!
So, you finally took the plunge and picked out the perfect puppy - and now you're on your way home with him/her curled up on your lap.
But wait... what do you do now? Do you know what to expect in terms of your puppy's development or behavior? Do you know how to keep him healthy? Or well fed? Or happy?
If not, don't panic :) Everything you need to know is right here on my website. To save time I'd recommend taking a look at my New Puppy Checklist because it will help you start out on the right foot (and paw!).